For love to flourish,
it needs a special place
where its not competing
for time and space.
It may feel extreme
to consider it hallowed ground,
but if your bedroom is not
the sanctuary for your love,
then where else is?
Your bedroom is the one room in your house that deserves the certain respect because it bears silent witness to and shelters your love.
If you love all the mystery from within those four walls, you'll be weakening the fabric of the bond you're trying to build.
If the door is never shut, or if it doubles as a work room, children's playroom, exercise area, TV viewing place, or snack bar, how can opportunities arise for spontaneous signs of affection?
Try to think of your bedroom as a garden, and put up a fence to protect your little seedlings of love and give them a better chance to grow.
TIP:
If space limitations leave you no choice but to have your bedroom double as something else, then at least put some time limits on these activities. Remember, cuddling is just as important as paying bills, and far superior to watching the evening news.
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